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    Post  MisterTEEhee Mon Jul 19, 2010 5:56 pm

    Lately, I've been having a bunch of problems, and don't know how to really get it out. I guess this could be a way...

    So, I've been "talking" to this girl over the school year, and got with her on April 14th, 2010. Before summer started, I told her I was going to be in Vietnam for about a month. All she tells me is, "don't get with another girl, or I'm going to make sure the production of your sperm stops, don't forget to call me when you come back, I'll pick up". About a couple weeks ago, she starts to act very, strange, I suppose. While I was gone, I've been hearing that she's been talking to her ex. Of course, the first thing I'd do is get very, very, angry, and I did.

    When I came back, of course I called her first. But there was no answer. When I'm on AIM, she logs on and logs out right away. If I'm on invisible, she'll stay online, until I turn off the invisible on AIM. For the past 2 weeks now, I haven't gotten a hold of her, at all.

    What should I do? Should I drop the relationship? Or should I get hurt again, for the 3rd time. ):

    Sorry for bothering you guys if you really read this. I just didn't know how to get it out.

    -Tyler
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:03 pm

    Coming from someone who just got out of a major relationship herself, If she's ignoring you(which it sounds like she is) drop it, the pain will be even worse if you keep it up and she continues to do what she's doing. It is common for people to get back together, let HER make that step, since she's the one that just made a mess of what you had... (My opinion) I'm sorry to hear what she's doing, I know how much it hurts... My ex and I were together almost two years.. Broke up last week.. </3
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    Post  MisterTEEhee Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:11 pm

    Thanks Beth.

    I question sometimes, "Why me?" As in "why am I so lucky to go out with one of my closest friends, ya'know?"

    Now I ask, "Why me?" As in "why am I the one hurting for one of my closest friends."

    Hmm, you're right. Maybe I should just drop it. I'm sorry to read about what happened to you ]:

    What's funny is that, I used to be one of those people who used to be all cocky and stuff, now I find myself, lost and defenceless. Another thing I find funny is that, when I see a couple, when the Girl looks at the Guy in a loving way, I smile, like it's nice to see that people actually can care, but hurt inside, wishing that it was me.

    What a Summer Vac. I guess it's a good thing I met people like you through this server. Not ONLY that we can play a video game together, but we can actually really talk.

    Thanks,
    -Tyler
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:17 pm

    I'm here anytime you want to talk. If you want, you can add me to MSN, if you have it. If you don't want to talk via Forum. I know how badly someone going through a hard relationship needs a friend. <3
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    Post  MisterTEEhee Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:45 pm

    alrighty, thanks for the invite. What I'm scared of is annoying you. So you don't really have to.
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:57 pm

    You don't need to even worry about that. lol I wouldn't mind talking at all. So the invite still stands. <3
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    Post  Cerenaphor Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:09 pm

    Same here teehee, i know how painful it is to get out of a loving relationship.Sad if u ever need someone to talk too im here too bro
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    Post  MisterTEEhee Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:21 pm

    Thanks Guys. [:

    Just got back from running, my butt hurts?!

    It didn't get my mind off of things, but it's better than my "evil" side. According to guys at school. Alot of guys are scared of me T:
    LOL

    -Tyler
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    Post  Flegi Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:53 am

    Lol, same thing here. Around 2 or 3 years ago, i had a girlfriend, she was from Vietnam, as you, if i understood it right. Well, we was a couple 2 or 3 months, had great time hanging around. And she started acting weird. She did the same, i called her, she was just laughting and then shes like ''Oh, sorry, what did you say?'' then i tryed to ask where she is and i tryed to explain i havent seen her for like 4 days, and shes again like ''Oh, sorry, what did you say?'' it pissed me off, i said goodbye and just hanged up. Well, good friend of mine saw her in a walking park with some boy, he didnt see anything ''romantic'' as kissing. But my Ex. was sitting on the boys knee and then they started hugging, huh. Is she with the boy or with me? Im sure she didnt evne tell the boy she is with me. But well, i dropped her, but i gave a payback. We was like 30 people in a party at my friends house, a girl. Well, i saw my Ex. and the boy in the party and i went talking with the boy, said him that she was with me while she was partying with you in the park and his mouth went like; '':O'' and he left the party. Haha, well, im just saying.

    DROP HER.
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    Post  DXHaseoXD Tue Jul 20, 2010 6:45 am

    I've never been dumped so ya.... sorry that I can't help...., but I can introduce you to a nice girl....that's all I can do to help...
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    Post  Flegi Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:06 am

    DXHaseoXD wrote:I've never been dumped so ya.... sorry that I can't help...., but I can introduce you to a nice girl....that's all I can do to help...

    We are talking about, how WE dumped a girl.
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:47 am

    I don't think he's talking about dumping anyone, he was just simply needing another opinion to help him. Needing advice from friends. Not necessarily dumping someone. O.o
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    Post  Flegi Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:51 am

    ♥Desire♥ wrote:I don't think he's talking about dumping anyone, he was just simply needing another opinion to help him. Needing advice from friends. Not necessarily dumping someone. O.o

    Hmm.. Do they know themself?
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:56 am

    Do what? Themself as in..?
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    Post  MisterTEEhee Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:45 am

    Well guys, I got to talk to her last night. It seemed like she didn't want to leave me or anything. I'm not quite sure yet though. I don't know what she wants to do until I finally get to see her.
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    Post  Flegi Tue Jul 20, 2010 11:03 am

    MisterTEEhee wrote:Well guys, I got to talk to her last night. It seemed like she didn't want to leave me or anything. I'm not quite sure yet though. I don't know what she wants to do until I finally get to see her.

    Well, all i can do, is to wish luck for you.
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    Post  ♥Desire♥ Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:08 pm

    I hope you figure it all out, and I wish you the very best of luck.
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    Post  MisterTEEhee Fri Jul 23, 2010 7:44 pm

    I saw her today. She basically ended things, the 3rd time.
    I do not know why I try so hard.
    I do not know why I feel this way.
    I do not know why it has ended the way it has.
    I do not know alot of things in life, but the things I think that are important, seem like they aren't anymore.

    What I do know is that I have great friends, at home. And here.

    I feel that I'm not enough for a lot of things.

    I know that I'm not the best person to be around but, I was hoping for a better ending. Oh well.

    I guess right now I should live life with another Fake Smiley. 'Til things get better, again.

    -Tyler
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    Post  Christina Sun Jul 25, 2010 6:13 am

    Sorry ;p
    I'm just back from oversea and Honestly this kind of situation if it happen on me i will not feel sad or pain "inside" cause i also dare to admit i am that kind of girl who you saying that the girl cheated on you so . Just be happy everyday Must learn to give and let go . Very Happy
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